Newsletter #67: πΎ What else could be true?
Practicing discernment in an age of outrage
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βPeace is always beautiful.β
If you've been a reader of my newsletter for a while, you know I love visiting regenerative farms. I love learning from farmers who are on the frontlines of healing our soil, growing and raising the most nutrient-dense, clean food, and supporting a version of our economy that promotes biodiversity rather than extractionβall while cultivating natural beauty.
π Read more: Newsletter #48: π π§βπΎ 11 Farms I love that are changing the world
This is a part of our world I can't get enough of. If regenerative agriculture scales, we could have a cleaner environment, a more sustainable and affordable food system, healthier ecosystems, better human health, and stronger communities. Regenerative farming is amongst the winningest of wins.
My husband and I recently visited a regenerative farm where we source our meat. This small farm of about 10 acres raises grass-fed cows, pastured pigs and chickens, rabbits, and goats. They use zero pesticides or chemical inputs, and they tend to the farm as a husband-and-wife duo with the help of a single farmhand. They only ship locally, within about a 200-mile radius, and many of their customers come directly to the farm to pick up meat.
As their operation grew, they expanded onto their neighbor's land for their animals to graze. The land had formerly been used for industrial sweet potato farming, with pesticides applied by the truckload, leaving the soil depleted and dead.
Since bringing animals back onto the land, the rich manure, hoofing, and scratching of the fields have alchemized the soil. The fields are now bursting with lifeβmostly in the form of head-high guinea grass, a dense invasive grass that serves as one of the main food sources for the cows and pigs on their property.
As I heard the farmer talk admiringly about the guinea grass, I was floored.
Until that day, I had only heard about guinea grass from people in my neighborhood who wanted one thing from it: to completely eradicate it.
Guinea grass
Guinea grass is considered the ultimate lawn scourge, taking over flower pots, yards, hedges, and native plants. It is a source of endless frustration, expense, and weed-whacking for people trying to maintain a green, pristine lawn.
I had also heard about guinea grass as a safety hazard. The county tries to eradicate it from the sides of roads, where it can grow so tall and dense that it obscures guardrails and visibility. While some areas bring in crews to weed-whack, you will often drive down the road and see stretches of brown, dead grass around the guardrailsβa sign that the area has recently been sprayed with an extremely toxic glufosinate-ammonium herbicide called Finale that can cause neurologic and reproductive toxicity, amongst other issues.
This has led to an uproar between local residents who do not want these chemicals sprayed along roadsides, draining into streams and ultimately the ocean, and county officials who say chemical spraying is the only effective option.
What an interesting paradox. Within the course of a single stretch of road, you have:
A farmer to whom the grass represents food for her animalsβgrass that is transformed into nutrient-dense meat and ultimately becomes the source of income for her family and nourishment for her community.
Homeowners striving for green, pristine lawns who want to eradicate guinea grass for aesthetic reasons.
County officials who see guinea grass as a safety hazard and are using toxic chemicals to eradicate it.
The point here is not that guinea grass is secretly good. It causes real issues, including crowding out native plants and spreading rapidly.
What struck me was realizing that, based on the perspective I had encountered before visiting the farm, I had thought guinea grass was universally a nuisance and universally bad. My mind had never considered that, within a different system and relationship, it could also be useful and valuable. Going out in the world, talking to people, and seeing how they live and work expanded my perspective.
This is the heart of what Byron Katie, author of Loving What Is, teaches. She shares that if there is any other explanation for a situation that could possibly be true, we can and should loosen our grip on the interpretation causing us pain. Suffering often begins when we mistake our first interpretation for reality itself, rather than holding it as one possible story among many.
Loosening our grip on one interpretation does not mean abandoning facts or pretending every perspective has equal merit and morals. It means refusing to confuse a partial truth with the whole truth. And the whole truth is one that, Iβd imagine, only God knows.
I think much of the pain in society today comes from our unwillingness to do this. We may see or hear one little thingβa headline, a post, a quote taken out of context, a few seconds of a videoβand immediately commit ourselves to certainty, outrage, or even hate. We may decide who is good and who is bad, what is true and what is false, and what an entire person, group, or situation means. Then the dangerous part: we react. We may react outwardly, by writing a comment or email or making major decisions; or inwardly, by deepening the grooves of thought that shape how we experience the world.
Our information diet has come to resemble our food supply: ultraprocessed, pre-digested, quickly consumable, and engineered to keep us wanting more. And both are making us very sickβin our guts and in our heads. Inflammatory bowel disease, some early-onset GI cancers, irritable bowel syndrome, and GERD are on the rise, as are depression and anxiety. Algorithms now deliver an individualized, inflammatory highlight reel to nearly every human being with a smartphone, cutting deep grooves in our psyches about what is βtrueβ and what is not. Artificially generated images, voices, and videos make it increasingly difficult to know whether what we are seeing is even real. We are reading fewer books, and we are even speaking less to other people.
But there is an opportunity here. As βinformationβ appears more abundant and easier to access than ever, we are being challenged to elevate ourselves and practice discernment: to loosen our grip on the first story we are told and pursue a fuller truth. To seek out multiple perspectives, talk to people with different opinions, ask what context might be missing, read and watch actual primary sources, consider whether any other explanation could possibly be true, and resist committing ourselves to anger before we have made a real attempt to understand.
We are being asked to open our eyes to the real world, engage with real people from different walks of life, have real experiences, read real literature and papers, and then reflect on all of those rich inputsβallowing our thoughts to be emergent rather than prescribed. We are being asked to strive for a deeper state of steady coherence, different from the addictive, easily shareable soundbites of outrage. It sounds hard, but the alternativeβwhich increasingly feels like the direction our civilization is goingβis much, much harder.
How do we know if we are practicing discernment? Perhaps we begin by noticing whether our minds are becoming clearer or more inflamed. Whether we are moving toward understanding or simply staying on the merry-go-round of outrage. Whether we are seeking truth, or seeking more evidence for the story weβve chosen to identify with.
I'd offer a thought experiment for this week: Is there something in your life that you have understood through only one story? A nuisance, an obstacle, a conflict, or a difficult experience. Without denying what is painful about it, is there another perspective that might also be true? Could it become an unexpected input into wisdom, growth, art, strength, inspiration for change-making, or perspectiveβjust as all excrement, properly tended, can be composted into thriving soil?
Difficult experiences need not be passively accepted; sometimes the best response is removal, repair, a boundary, or structural change. But perhaps a different relationship with the challenge can reveal a possibility for productivity we could not see before.
Coming to understand the utility of guinea grass doesn't make it any less invasive. But, it does remind me that the first story is rarely the whole story.
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